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Because I Love You

Don’t let phrases like “Because I Love You” control your friends’ relationships. Watch the videos and download the discussion guide and start a convo!

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“Because I Love You” is such a simple phrase that can take on a different meaning in an unhealthy relationship; escalating from a statement of care to one of control. In a violent or abusive relationship, control statements like “Because I Love You” are often used in a pattern of put-downs or mind games that are meant to gain power over you, leave you feeling fearful or like everything’s your fault.


Watch the videos below to learn more about controlling statements.

Because I Love You – Delete

Because I Love You – Double Whiskey

Talk to your friends about control statements and help them understand why they are unhealthy

To help you with this conversation, we’ve created a discussion guide complete with questions and answers to help you talk about controlling statements and other unhealthy relationship behaviors. You can use this guide for conversations in the classroom, with groups or teams, friends or even with loved ones. 

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Don’t let a phrase like “Because I Love You” control your friends’ relationships. Sign up below to download the Because I Love You discussion guide and start the conversation today.

Learn to define the gray areas between love and control with our #ThatsNotLove campaign.